Frederic Freyer

Frederic Freyer

April 24th, 1930 November 20th, 2020
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Obituary for Frederic B. Freyer

Frederic Burton Freyer, 90, formerly of Crestwood, N.Y., died Thursday night, Nov. 19, at The Kensington White Plains, surrounded by his seven children. He was the husband of Frances Kiley Freyer for 67 years.

A devoted father who liked to say that having so many children “keeps me young,” he never missed a single concert, play, exhibition or ceremony for any of his children and put all seven through college.

Fred worked most of his life as an art director for a commercial art company in Manhattan. But he brought a joyful enthusiasm to many other pursuits.

He loved railroads and built an extensive model railroad in the basement. He also loved airplanes, crafting models that he hung from the ceiling.

He played the piano and filled his home with recorded music, from Frank Sinatra to Johnny Cash to Yo-Yo Ma. He enjoyed plays, ballet and art museums.

Fred exhaustively chronicled his family’s life in photographs, maintaining neatly catalogued boxes of slides and, later, photo albums from his world travels. Forever a New Yorker at heart even after moving to the suburbs, he avidly followed the Mets and read the New York Times.

Fred also took an interest in history. He served as an active member of the Crestwood Historical Society for decades and in retirement became its treasurer and unofficial public relations chief, creating artful posters to advertise its events.

He was an optimist: “All’s well,” “We’re having a fine time,” and “I can handle it" were his mottos. He transmitted this optimism to his children, often with the promise, “Everything will be all right."

Born in Brooklyn on April 24, 1930, and raised in the Bronx, he was the son of Henry Freyer and Edith Yormark Freyer and the great-grandson of immigrants from Eastern Europe.

Fred attended Evander Childs High School, graduating in 1948. He spent his summers playing the piano and leading a small band in the Catskills. He was elected president of his senior class in both high school and college.

Fred was accepted into the highly competitive art program at The Cooper Union, where he studied from 1948 to 1951, each day taking the Third Avenue elevated train from home in the Bronx. He left Cooper Union before graduating to enlist in the Navy during the Korean Conflict. With the rank of photographer's mate petty officer 2nd class, he was able to indulge two of his loves, flying and photography.

In the early 1950s, two events shaped his future.

In the summer of 1950, he took a job as a camp counselor at a resort in Moodus, Conn. There, he met 17-year-old Frances Ellen Kiley, who was working as a waitress in the children’s dining room. He would later describe that summer as idyllic, saying the two of them were “besotted” with love. They eventually married, in 1953, at the chapel at the University of Connecticut.

Also around this time, Fred attended a Roman Catholic Mass with Fran at her church in Middletown, Conn. He was impressed with the majesty of the church’s rituals and the robustness of its doctrine, and converted to Catholicism while in the Navy. He remained a devout Catholic throughout his life, attending Our Lady of Fatima Church in Crestwood in his later years.

After leaving the Navy in 1955, Fred joined the commercial art company Fenga and Donderi in Manhattan, over the decades ascending to art director and vice president at the firm, which eventually became Fenga and Freyer.

In 1981 he was hired as director of graphics studio operations at Comart, supervising a staff of 16 artists, graphics technicians, typographers and proofreaders until 1994. He was a member of the Art Directors Club of New York, and for many years entertained his colleagues playing the piano at the club’s lunches.

In 1995, he completed his college degree at Berkeley College in White Plains. He also attended secretarial school, bemused to find himself learning typing and other clerical skills among a group of mostly young people.

That training led to a job at Metal Finishing Magazine in Tarrytown in 1995. He worked as Books Department manager, handling sales, consulting on graphics and representing the company at trade shows.

After retiring in 2002, he traveled widely with his beloved Frances until he became her primary caretaker as she became increasingly impaired by dementia.

The Freyers had lived in the Sunnyside Park section of Yonkers from 1964 to 1988. Then they moved to a white stucco house in the Crestwood section, memorable in the neighborhood for the large yew bush that Fred encircled with colored lights every Christmas.

In December 2019, Fred and Fran found a new home at The Kensington White Plains, where they were cared for with genuine love, and where Fran continues to live. Fred was content and comfortable at The Kensington, but a fall during a hospital visit in October triggered a series of medical setbacks that he could not overcome.

In addition to his wife, he is survived by his children, H. Eugene Freyer and his wife, Iris, of New City, N.Y., Felice J. Freyer of Smithfield, R.I., Amy E. Chin and her husband, Quentin, of Pittsfield, Mass., Jennifer Freyer of New York City, Frederick Q. Freyer and his wife, Jaye, of Eastchester, N.Y., Nancy J. Wissman and her husband, Thomas, of Blauvelt, N.Y., and Christopher J. Freyer of Eastchester, N.Y.; his adoring sister and brother-in-law, Phyllis and Henry Behar of Litchfield, Conn.; eight grandchildren, Nicole Arasim, Stephanie Solomon, Daniel Crowell, Emily Johnson, Frederic “Jake” Freyer, Allegra Chin, Robert Wissman, and Mya Wissman; and two great-grandchildren, Calvin and Ozzie Arasim.

A funeral Mass for family only will be held Friday at 11 a.m. at the Annunciation Church in Crestwood, and streamed live at A memorial service and interment of ashes are planned for the spring.
Donations can be made to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center or the Alzheimer’s Association.

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Jody Rose

My father, Fredric Stollmack was Frederic Freyer’s cousin and dear boyhood friend. I was reminded of this just the other day when I came across Dad’s copy of “Treasure Island,” gifted to him by his Cousin Fred, as noted in the inscription on June 29,1937. Below that inscription is my own childhood signature because Dad passed the book on to me after we both read it together and when my children were old enough, I read it to them - and they loved it, too. That was a great gift, Uncle Fred; thank you!

As kids, we loved it when Dad took us to see our cousins at Sunnyside Park, where the marvelous train snaked through the basement and Uncle Fred’s joyful, bountiful, and generous spirit pervaded the entire house. He was the kind of man who’s gifts transcend time, space, and distance, as evidenced by the fact that three generations of my family have already benefited from his gift to my Dad all those years ago - and this wonderful book is going to continue to be read and loved a lot more before it is done.

I am so sorry to hear of Uncle Fred’s passing. If there is any silver lining, it is that it brings me back in contact with my Freyer cousins and I look forward to reconnecting all of you over time,

Jody (Stollmack) Rose
Comment | Posted at 07:18pm via Condolence

Gene Freyer

Jody, thanks for telling us about "Treasure Island", for your warm memories about your uncle, and for you reminiscences about seeing Dad's model railroad. We must keep in touch!
Posted at 06:54am

Jody Rose

Gene, yes, I very much look forward to keeping touch!
Posted at 04:00pm

Frederick Freyer

Dear Jody, it was so kind of you to write this. We have many photos of our father with yours, from childhood through Dad and Mom's wedding, when your Fred was our Fred's best man. Even though they fell out of touch, they were connected across time. I do hope we can continued that with you.
Posted at 11:44pm

Gene Freyer

Oftentimes, families who lose a loved one tend to mythologize the deceased — glorifying life stories and recounting rose-colored memories. But for Fred Freyer, no embellishment is required. I'm standing before you to tell you in earnest how incredible this man was — his character, his decency, and his love for his family — have been an inspiration to all around him. I would say the same things to him if he was sitting here today. And I dearly wish he was, but I think he knew how admired he was and how deep our love for him was and continues to be. At the suggestion that he was a great man, however, his reply would likely be “pshaw!” Nonetheless, to us he was always great, in the truest sense of the word.

Why do I say he was great? Dad was a true family man. He put his mother, wife and children first. One way we knew this is because throughout our childhood he had no friends. From the earliest days in our lives, his weekends and vacations were totally centered around us. During these times, he inculcated us with his and our mom’s values: treasure learning; have high standards, be generous, treat other people fairly, have a strong work ethic, care for the environment and hold tight to hope. By his example and through his superb ability to use the English language, we saw that being smart mattered. He told us not to accept “second best”; he gave his time, both to us and to causes; he always said he preferred to side with “the little guy” (in other words, those typically overlooked in society); he demanded excellence from himself and others in the workplace; he taught us not to litter. He always made us feel good by telling us that everything would be okay whenever we were feeling down.

This might have been enough except that Dad always expressed his love for each of us, and gave it freely. Moreover, his span of years absolutely met the description of a “life well lived” because he had no use for trivialities. He knew how to make the best use of his time: never bringing work home, planning out his free time meticulously, and dedicating himself passionately to his family and his hobbies.

Although after leaving the navy, putting us above his socializing outside the family meant that he didn’t have friends, it didn’t bother him. When we reached adulthood, we came to know why. He had something he valued more: he was admired and he was respected by almost everyone he met, from the woman who cleaned his house to his superiors in the office. And with that, our appreciation and pride in him was only raised to a higher level.

And now, with great-grandchildren who have met him and will continue to learn about him, Dad’s legacy of decency and first-rate parenting is being passed down.

Dad told me not long ago that he was not afraid of death, but that he was a little uncertain of what happens after he dies. I told him that he would live on in our memory of him — and I really believe that. We will always think of him. And as long as we think of him, as long as we say his name, as long as we continue to teach the values he espoused to our children and their children, Dad does live on.
Comment | Posted at 05:17pm via Condolence

Quentin Chin

In my preaching I often remind the congregation that love is more than an emotion, love is a verb. Expressions of love are what we do for one another.
Fred was love lived out every day, every moment of his life. He expressed love in large and small gestures and, perhaps, most importantly, in time. He would always have time for us (maybe it is connected to all those clocks....). He always asked how each of us how we were and thoroughly engaged us with questions.
I remember when Fred and Fran had lunch at our house with our pastor, Doug, and his wife, Mary (also clergy). This was shortly after we announced our engagement. As a convert from Judaism to Roman Catholicism and being a devout Catholic, his understanding of Reform Protestantism (which is the root of the United Church of Christ) was unfamiliar to him. Thus, he had a seemingly inexhaustible list of questions about doctrine, polity, and our local church. Fran finally stopped him by saying, "Fred, they believe in Jesus Christ."
Over the years, when visiting us, Fred would attend mass at St. Theresa's on Saturday and come to church with us on Sunday morning. Eventually, those questions were answered, which we can say were answered in God's time or perhaps by the Holy Spirit. He even made a suggestion to our pastor in the conduct of the service, which we adopted and still practice today.
Perhaps, too, other questions were answered during my first two years of seminary when Crestwood became one of my overnights in the area. When I stayed at the various homes, I rarely studied. It was a time to visit. So, when I was in Crestwood, I would prepare dinner and then we would talk. He was always interested in the courses I was taking that semester and as usual, full of questions, including questions on doctrine, which enriched his own understanding of his faith.
Fred was always interested in my ministry. He always wondered about the church I was serving at the time and was also interested in the homeless veterans I served. When I began teaching inmates at the local house of corrections, Fred was really interested in that. He kept asking me in various ways, "How do they keep you safe?" He also wondered about the men I was teaching - he was really curious what they did that led to their incarceration. For reasons of confidentiality, I share that sparingly.
I think Fred liked that a member of the family was clergy. After I was ordained he was one of the few people who regularly used my title when addressing me. (I know he didn't do for formality - it was affection.)
Ten years ago when we celebrated Fred's birthday, we all, including in-law children, offered some words as our gifts of love and affection. As part of mine, I offered Psalm 128:
"Happy is everyone who fears the Lord,
who walks in his ways.
You shall eat the fruit of the labor of your hands;
you shall be happy, and it shall go well with you.

Your wife will be like a fruitful vine
within your house;
your children will be like olive shoots
around your table.
Thus shall the man be blessed
who fears the Lord.

The Lord bless you from Zion.
May you see the prosperity of Jerusalem
all the days of your life.
May you see your children’s children.
Peace be upon Israel!"
I'm guessing that all the questions Fred had about faith have now been answered as he is now with God, the Christ, and the Holy Spirit. Although, who knows, he may still be asking God all his questions.
Thank you, Fred, for love. Love lived out. Love shown. Love that binds this family together. Can there be a better legacy than that?

Comment | Posted at 10:14am via Condolence

Chris Freyer

Thanks, Quentin--what a moving tribute to Dad's personality. Indeed he went a step further and got to see his children's children's children, and I love the image of him still seeking all the answers.
Posted at 05:10pm

Gene Freyer

This tribute is amazing. Thank you.
Posted at 01:05pm

Terry Geller DDS

Fred and Fran were long time dental patients in our office. They became part of our office family, and always managed to bring a smile to all of us. We send our condolences to the entire family. We will miss our friend.
Comment | Posted at 09:20pm via Condolence

Chris Freyer

Thank you, Dr. Geller. We appreciate that you and your family took such good care of Dad.
Posted at 04:36pm

Gene Freyer

Thanks so much!
Posted at 01:06pm

Jennifer & Michael Herwick

Sending our heart felt condolences to the Freyer Family. We are so sorry to hear about your Dad’s passing. He was such a sweet and caring man who took such good care of your Mom. It was beautiful to see his devotion to your Mom and how much he loved her. Your Dad welcomed us to Crestwood and always asked us how are days were going and how our daughter was doing. A true gentleman and one of the kindest men we have ever met. It was such an honor to get to know him for the five years we lived next door to your parents. We are thinking of you all and sending our love and prayers. Fred will be truly missed.
Comment | Posted at 09:27pm via Condolence

Chris Freyer

Thank you so much, Jennifer and Michael! We are so happy you were friends with Dad and Mom. It meant a lot to them and us.
Posted at 09:38am

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